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~*dribs and drabs of the life*~

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Remember this---that very little is needed to make a happy life.

Sunday 8 April 2007

Background friend

When we were kids, the hours spent with friends were too much to count. Friendship takes the very important part of our lives. It is both a source of pleasure and a component of good health। When something good happens to us, sharing the happiness of the occasion with friends intensifies our joy. In the time of trouble and tension, talking with friend will let you out of the upset as soon as possible.

There is a kind of friends called “background friend”। You need not to make up and do anything when you stay with them। You can say anything without scruple even the soulless words. You can put up your friability.

The “background friends” just only to comfort you, they will mot mock or trace you. So you need not stand out when you stay with them. Even you can show all the weakness to them. It is the most relax. The real friendship only can stand with heart and feel with love.

13 comments:

China valve said...

it's very good! i like this composition very much. you are a good writer.

Thang Q. Tran said...

You are happy if you have a lot of friends, you are much more happy if you have some close friends. You are lucky if you have one background friend :)

Mike Minzes said...

I am impressed with your writing and your ability to capture an idea and make it your own. You also used a picture to draw out the concept of a "background friend".

Not only did you sell the idea, but your story was compelling.

Great job!

Anonymous said...

Hi. I really enjoy your blog. This is my first view. You just left a nice comment on my "young" blog! :)
I love the way you combine your pictures with your thoughts...it is truly lovely.
And, I really like what you said about friends. My husband and I (and our twin daughters) live 10 hours (by car) away from any of our family....so, our very good friends in our area have become our family. We spend holidays together, celebrate special and everyday occassions and are just there for each other. Friends are just everything, aren't they?
I look forward to future posts from you!
Take care/Have Fun,
-Cindy

Thang Q. Tran said...

越南人说哪:bán anh em xa, mua láng giềng gần.那是的时候你不可以在你父母,哥哥,姐姐的身边,朋友是你的家。这样你不要当心,因为你有好多朋友永远在你的身边。
PS:对不起,我说中文的不好。我正在学习啊。

lujie said...

Thank you cindy and I will try my best to write.

lujie said...

It doesn't thang! My English also not good and I will improve it.

Thang Q. Tran said...

You write English very well already. The way you express your idea is great.

Anonymous said...

friendship is very important.
I have some good friends."YONG XING UNITED" is a good example,the member is part of born in the yongxing street. we are begin to build each other affection from childhood right away.and part of the high school affection is good schoolmate.we are like playing football.
expect that.i very like the schoolmate.i like the class of highschool very much.include you and some schoolmates.so you have something unhappy.tell me~~~haha~~!

lujie said...

~~haha~~Thank you sam!
I know the comment of anonymous is yours.^0^
I wish we are good friends for ever and thanks your help all the time.

sulingfei said...

At home your family will help you a lot.but outside is your friends.
I like this composition as well. keep on writting.

Anonymous said...

everyone has many friends...but it is hard to find two or three background friends who can talk with heart...luckily...i have some...we ar very friendly...whatever choices i make,they will support me...thank you for them...include you...i must treasure our friendship...

lujie said...

we are most often called upon to support others in friendship.
~~right?~~haha~~^0^ ^0^